You're Just Not My Type.

Well Valentine's is sorta drawing sort of near. And I decided maybe I can post something related to dating and stuff. So here we go. Happy almost frackin' Valentines day everybody.

You know the saying, "he's just not my type," or whatever, just something of that context. Well, as annoying as it sounds everyone usually has a particular type, whether it's obvious or not. (To clear any confusion-bbvious to me would be look wise while not so obvious types would be dealing with particular personalities and certain characteristics) I definitely have a type -not that I am the most flirtacious person and go on dates all the time or anything in this case "my type"  would be concerning what qualities I am most drawn to and attracted to- I'm going to discuss what my type is and why. Mostly for fun but also because I have some colleagues who are aware of "my type" and others are trying to "set me up" with people because it's a crime to be single during high school, I guess. (Please Note: the people I have been set up with are definitely NOT my type at all and I mean this as caring and non-judgemental as possible)

Let me begin with personality traits I look most for and what are definitely required in a male whom I plan to have a long term relationship with:

- Educated. Why? Because I like to carry on decent conversations with people, if he isn't a very well-rounded person and can only talk to me about Jershey Shore and football, I'm not going to be very interested. Having said that, I think it's good to also be able to talk about pop culture of the present day but I'm just saying I like somewhat intelligent conversations.
-Humorous. This is a given, I like to laugh. If you can make me laugh, I probably like to be around you more. I'm a pretty goofy person and I like sort of goofy people.
-Non-judgmental. I know, this sounds pathetic because of the whole gist of this post. It seems hypocritical. But I'm actuality I'm not judgmental, just when I blog I am.
-Down to earth. In other words, relxed. Kind of goes with the flow. I just feel more comfortable around those people.
-Passionate. No matter what the passion is for, having a strong dedication to anything that expresses oneself is extremely admirable to me.
-Values certain morals. I think it's important for makes to have the same values and morals as me. I will never date someone who is addicted to drugs or alcohol and doesn't see the mportance of family.

Personality traits that are highly appreciated but not required. Include:

-Random. I'm random I appreciate random people because they're the same way.
-Spontaneous. Just cause...
-Romantic. Not to an extreme, but I can understand males nt being romantic because I'm not at all.
-Sensitive. Not to an extreme degree, but somewhat sensitive and compassionate is nice.



Awh, now look wise. None of these are really required, but all are very highly appreciated.

- Lanky. I don't know what it is but I think lanky men are super attractive. If you don't know what lanky means, go away.
- Beards. I love beards. Not like full grown biker beards but the scruffy kind of "I'm in touch with nature" or "I'm definitely urban" kind of look is fetchin' attractive.
- Nice smile. Sort of important, good smiles are good. Need I say more?
- Glasses. I love glasses. Now, I'm talking like the thick frame, square lense sort of glasses. I just love glasses. Don't know why, I just do.

Also required:
- Good hygiene.
- Respectful to others and myself.
- Kind.
- Common interests. (Whether it's some or a ton, I need some common interests)
These shouldn't Have to be and also will not be explained.


So yes. That's my type. Lanky, beard-wielding, glasses wearing men with awesome personalities. And common interests. Now you know.

Good day, loves.